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Trashman
03-26-2009, 07:49 PM
HARTFORD, Connecticut (Reuters) – An American woman handcuffed herself to her sleeping husband in an apparent attempt to resolve an argument, but police ended up breaking into their home and charging her with assault and other crimes, authorities said on Tuesday.

Helen Sun, 37, handcuffed herself to Robert Drawbough as he slept in their Fairfield, Connecticut, home on Monday in an effort to reconcile their differences, police said.

But when Drawbough called police with his cell phone, Sun responded by biting him on the arms and torso, police said.

Police officers heard screams when they arrived at the home and forced their way in, said Chris Lyddy of the Fairfield Police Department. Sun had also changed the locks on their bedroom door.

Sun was charged with third-degree assault, disorderly conduct, reckless endangerment and unlawful restraint. She was released on a $400 bond.

"I can't say I've ever seen a scenario quite like this," said Lyddy.
OldNavy
03-26-2009, 08:51 PM
I always tell my wife EXACTLY how it is!










I say "I'm sorry, I will try and not let it happen ever again."

That works most of the time.
ronwx5x
03-26-2009, 09:02 PM
Originally posted by OldNavy
I always tell my wife EXACTLY how it is!










I say "I'm sorry, I will try and not let it happen ever again."

That works most of the time.

Yes dear, you are exactly right!
gobbler grad
03-26-2009, 09:08 PM
always hide that extra key to them cuffs under the pillow...:helpme:
ASUFrisbeeStud
03-26-2009, 11:41 PM
Originally posted by Ernest T Bass
I refuse to sleep on the couch, and when she decides she's gonna sleep on the couch since I won't, I go snuggle up with her on the couch.When she gets off the couch, I follow her wherever she decides to sleep. Pisses her off more to begin with, but it always ends well. ;)

Tried that once, didn't end well.
Lion_Addict
03-27-2009, 07:49 AM
DIVORCE................:D ;)

Signing the papers next week! :cheerl: :cheerl: :cheerl:
BIG BLUE DEFENSIVE END
03-27-2009, 07:51 AM
What is this thing you call a "spouse" and what is "marriage"?
garciap77
03-27-2009, 07:52 AM
Originally posted by gobbler grad
always hide that extra key to them cuffs under the pillow...:helpme: :eek:
Lion_Addict
03-27-2009, 07:55 AM
Originally posted by BIG BLUE DEFENSIVE END
What is this thing you call a "spouse" and what is "marriage"?

Sumthin you need to STAY AWAY from brotha!!!!!
Looking4number8
03-27-2009, 08:29 AM
Originally posted by Lion_Addict
DIVORCE................:D ;)

Signing the papers next week! :cheerl: :cheerl: :cheerl:

Thats always been my solution. Worked out pretty well for me so far!
ronwx5x
03-27-2009, 08:33 AM
Originally posted by Looking4number8
Thats always been my solution. Worked out pretty well for me so far!

Been married coming up 41 years and don't plan to make any changes. I prefer it that way. When my kids were young they were certainly in a minority for having original parents!
Phil C
03-27-2009, 08:40 AM
I'M THE MAN OF THE HOUSE AND WHAT I SAY GOES SEE!? I AM THE LION OF MY HOUSE! I RULE AS THE BOSS!



:mad:
MN95
03-27-2009, 08:41 AM
I threaten to withold sex from her. Works every time.
Farmersfan
03-27-2009, 08:44 AM
Life is too short. I've been married for 24 years and I have never slept away from my wife because of anger and never will. That is just 1 of the many steps towards doom for a marriage in my opinion....

Of course putting your spouse in handcuffs and holding them against their will is MANY steps towards doom!(except in the those special occasions)
Lion_Addict
03-27-2009, 08:44 AM
Originally posted by MN95
I threaten to withold sex from her. Works every time.

:clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:
Lion_Addict
03-27-2009, 08:45 AM
Originally posted by Looking4number8
Thats always been my solution. Worked out pretty well for me so far!

Party time brotha!!! :2thumbsup
Farmersfan
03-27-2009, 08:48 AM
Originally posted by MN95
I threaten to withold sex from her. Works every time.


I think this was a typo MN95! Perhaps you meant you threathen your WITH sex....right?
Lion_Addict
03-27-2009, 08:50 AM
Originally posted by Farmersfan
I think this was a typo MN95! Perhaps you meant you threathen your WITH sex....right?

:clap: :clap: :clap: Enjoyed that one too...............
charlesrixey
03-27-2009, 09:22 AM
Originally posted by Farmersfan
Life is too short. I've been married for 24 years and I have never slept away from my wife because of anger and never will. That is just 1 of the many steps towards doom for a marriage in my opinion....

Of course putting your spouse in handcuffs and holding them against their will is MANY steps towards doom!(except in the those special occasions)

agreed in both counts!
:)
44INAROW
03-27-2009, 09:34 AM
Originally posted by Farmersfan
I think this was a typo MN95! Perhaps you meant you threathen your WITH sex....right?

that is probably one of the funniest things I've read on the downlow in a long time.:D :D :D


Originally posted by gobbler grad
always hide that extra key to them cuffs under the pillow...:helpme:
you know what they say, "it's the quiet ones you have to watch out for" :D
BILLYFRED0000
03-27-2009, 10:13 AM
Originally posted by ronwx5x
Been married coming up 41 years and don't plan to make any changes. I prefer it that way. When my kids were young they were certainly in a minority for having original parents!

That just shows you married the wrong one. The right one would have put you on the street. .....:D
crzyjournalist03
03-27-2009, 10:16 AM
I don't know about you guys, but if my wife handcuffed me in my sleep, when I woke up, my first reaction would probably be "Heck yeah!"
pirate4state
03-27-2009, 10:20 AM
Originally posted by crzyjournalist03
I don't know about you guys, but if my wife handcuffed me in my sleep, when I woke up, my first reaction would probably be "Heck yeah!" :spitlol:
BILLYFRED0000
03-27-2009, 10:24 AM
Originally posted by charlesrixey
agreed in both counts!
:)

I don't know. I think hand cuffs are kinda fun woo hoo.....

But really can't say much bad about my wife....... She might be listening or reading this.


Always reminds me of the joke...


If a man is talking in the forest with no women around....



Is he still wrong?
waterboy
03-27-2009, 10:33 AM
My wife just uses rope!:D That's why I keep a pocket knife taped to the head board.;) :inlove:

I definitely wear the pants in my family!:thumbsup:






.....of course, I have to ask permission first, but still....
SintonFan
03-27-2009, 10:40 AM
Originally posted by Farmersfan
I think this was a typo MN95! Perhaps you meant you threathen your WITH sex....right?
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ROFL!:clap:
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Women, when in an argument, all become sexual camels...:(
Farmersfan
03-27-2009, 10:43 AM
Originally posted by crzyjournalist03
I don't know about you guys, but if my wife handcuffed me in my sleep, when I woke up, my first reaction would probably be "Heck yeah!"


It could be worse. You could wake up with a board chained between your feet and her standing there with a 9lb sledge!!!!!

:eek: :eek:
ronwx5x
03-27-2009, 10:44 AM
Originally posted by BILLYFRED0000
That just shows you married the wrong one. The right one would have put you on the street. .....:D

You mean she's not nearly so smart as I thought?:rolleyes:
Farmersfan
03-27-2009, 10:45 AM
Originally posted by SintonFan
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ROFL!:clap:
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Women, when in an argument, all become sexual camels...:(


Not if they are married to a REAL man!!!!!


(at least that's what I have heard)
SintonFan
03-27-2009, 10:45 AM
Originally posted by Farmersfan
Not if they are married to a REAL man!!!!!


(at least that's what I have heard)
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Well when you see one let me know.:2thumbsup
Phil C
03-27-2009, 10:46 AM
I'M SO MAD RIGHT NOW THAT WHEN I GO HOME FOR LUNCH IF IT ISN'T READY I'M GOING TO THROW THE MICROWAVE OUT IN THE BACK YARD! AND IF IT'S READY I'M NOT GOING TO EAT IT!!

:mad:
Farmersfan
03-27-2009, 10:48 AM
Originally posted by Phil C
I'M SO MAD RIGHT NOW THAT WHEN I GO HOME FOR LUNCH IF IT ISN'T READY I'M GOING TO THROW THE MICROWAVE OUT IN THE BACK YARD! AND IF IT'S READY I'M NOT GOING TO EAT IT!!

:mad:


Starving yourself will show her what's what!!!!! You go boy!!!
Trashman
03-27-2009, 11:53 AM
I'M THE BOSS IN MY HOUSE!.......and i have my wife's permission to say so...........
kepdawg
03-27-2009, 04:43 PM
Originally posted by Looking4number8
Thats always been my solution. Worked out pretty well for me so far!

I always thought your screen name had something to do with Brownwood football!

I didn't realize it was a reference to your marital status!
Trashman
03-27-2009, 05:07 PM
Originally posted by kepdawg
I always thought your screen name had something to do with Brownwood football!

I didn't realize it was a reference to your marital status!

Now that is funny! Thanks Kep!