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Additup
06-20-2008, 11:16 AM
http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,1815845,00.html

Pregnancy Pact -

As summer vacation begins, 17 girls at Gloucester High School are expecting babies—more than four times the number of pregnancies the 1,200-student school had last year. Some adults dismissed the statistic as a blip. Others blamed hit movies like Juno and Knocked Up for glamorizing young unwed mothers. But principal Joseph Sullivan knows at least part of the reason there's been such a spike in teen pregnancies in this Massachusetts fishing town. School officials started looking into the matter as early as October after an unusual number of girls began filing into the school clinic to find out if they were pregnant. By May, several students had returned multiple times to get pregnancy tests, and on hearing the results, "some girls seemed more upset when they weren't pregnant than when they were," Sullivan says. All it took was a few simple questions before nearly half the expecting students, none older than 16, confessed to making a pact to get pregnant and raise their babies together. Then the story got worse. "We found out one of the fathers is a 24-year-old homeless guy," the principal says, shaking his head.

The question of what to do next has divided this fiercely Catholic enclave. Even with national data showing a 3% rise in teen pregnancies in 2006—the first increase in 15 years—Gloucester isn't sure it wants to provide easier access to birth control. In any case, many residents worry that the problem goes much deeper. The past decade has been difficult for this mostly white, mostly blue-collar city (pop. 30,000). In Gloucester, perched on scenic Cape Ann, the economy has always depended on a strong fishing industry. But in recent years, such jobs have all but disappeared overseas, and with them much of the community's wherewithal. "Families are broken," says school superintendent Christopher Farmer. "Many of our young people are growing up directionless."
The girls who made the pregnancy pact—some of whom, according to Sullivan, reacted to the news that they were expecting with high fives and plans for baby showers—declined to be interviewed. So did their parents. But Amanda Ireland, who graduated from Gloucester High on June 8, thinks she knows why these girls wanted to get pregnant. Ireland, 18, gave birth her freshman year and says some of her now pregnant schoolmates regularly approached her in the hall, remarking how lucky she was to have a baby. "They're so excited to finally have someone to love them unconditionally," Ireland says. "I try to explain it's hard to feel loved when an infant is screaming to be fed at 3 a.m."
The high school has done perhaps too good a job of embracing young mothers. Sex-ed classes end freshman year at Gloucester, where teen parents are encouraged to take their children to a free on-site day-care center. Strollers mingle seamlessly in school hallways among cheerleaders and junior ROTC. "We're proud to help the mothers stay in school," says Sue Todd, CEO of Pathways for Children, which runs the day-care center.
But by May, after nurse practitioner Kim Daly had administered some 150 pregnancy tests at Gloucester High's student clinic, she and the clinic's medical director, Dr. Brian Orr, a local pediatrician, began to advocate prescribing contraceptives regardless of parental consent, a practice at about 15 public high schools in Massachusetts. Currently Gloucester teens must travel about 20 miles (30 km) to reach the nearest women's health clinic; younger girls have to get a ride or take the train and walk. But the notion of a school handing out birth control pills has met with hostility. Says Mayor Carolyn Kirk: "Dr. Orr and Ms. Daly have no right to decide this for our children." The pair resigned in protest on May 30.
Gloucester's elected school committee plans to vote later this summer on whether to provide contraceptives. But that won't do much to solve the issue of teens wanting to get pregnant. Says rising junior Kacia Lowe, who is a classmate of the pactmakers': "No one's offered them a better option." And better options may be a tall order in a city so uncertain of its future. —with reporting by Kimberley McLeod/New York

sahen
06-20-2008, 11:20 AM
wow...how foolish...the sad part is the kid will be the one that will truely suffer in the end...

when i was in high school braces were the thing to have to make you look cool and were expensive, this is a whole new level...

AP Panther Fan
06-20-2008, 11:55 AM
I say give them the pills.....but, they also need to be educating them to make the right choices.

I don't think the day care is a bad idea, but maybe it as well as the mothers and mothers-to-be should be at a different location like AEP. Strollers and babies in the hallways is just ridiculous.:rolleyes:

Additup
06-20-2008, 12:08 PM
Some schools have teen age mother programs. I worked with a district that had good one. Here were some of the conditions:

1) Father had to be identified for the state so he would have to provide child support.
2) Day care provided by district for first child - any more you pay for ALL day care.
3) Baby is NEVER allowed in the High School setting.

Seemed to help some kids work out of a overwhelmingly tough situation.

jlg043
06-21-2008, 12:06 PM
Originally posted by sahen
wow...how foolish...the sad part is the kid will be the one that will truely suffer in the end...

when i was in high school braces were the thing to have to make you look cool and were expensive, this is a whole new level...

also to they're trying to get knocked up by a homeless guy.... thats just ignorant

Phil C
06-21-2008, 07:22 PM
:eek:

How do things like this happen?! :(

eagles_victory
06-21-2008, 07:28 PM
Originally posted by jlg043
also to they're trying to get knocked up by a homeless guy.... thats just ignorant Yea good luck getting child support from that guy

ProudHornetMom
06-21-2008, 07:40 PM
:dispntd: :1omg!:

One article I read stated that a 24 y/o unemployed man was the father to several of them. Surely, that's not true!

Lots of social issues here.

Johnny 5
06-21-2008, 08:27 PM
My thoughts:

This is one of the reasons that I think statutory rape charges should not exist for teenagers. Girls this age know exactly what they are doing. This BS that an older male will OBVIOUSLY manipulate an innocent girl is wrong. The girls do manipulating as well (Cruel Intentions anyone?).

This is also one of the reasons that I think forced child support should be dismantled. If the father wants to be a part of the child's life, pay child support. If not, do not pay child support.

Lastly, if an abortion is considered, the father should get a say so. It takes two to tangle.

Gobbla2001
06-21-2008, 08:43 PM
I couldn't even imagine writing an article about this... what's the point?

17 dumbass girls and a future Guinness World Record holder for most children born to different mothers within [insert time-frame here] of each other... stupid...

loboes86
06-21-2008, 09:57 PM
Originally posted by AP Panther Fan
I say give them the pills.....but, they also need to be educating them to make the right choices.

I don't think the day care is a bad idea, but maybe it as well as the mothers and mothers-to-be should be at a different location like AEP. Strollers and babies in the hallways is just ridiculous.:rolleyes: It doesn't sound like it will do any good to give them the pill unless you force feed them. These girls know what their doin they made a pact to get pregnant. Thats trully sad they have to have babies so they will feel loved . Take the homelees guy and have him neutered.

mustang04
06-22-2008, 11:55 AM
this is complete and total BS:mad:

so they could pretty much have told their bf "yeah, im on the pill, so dont worry about wearing a condom..." and next thing ya know, the guy has to pay child support cuz one of these crazy girls.....i really dont think the guy should have to honestly in my opinion

Gobbla2001
06-22-2008, 12:19 PM
Originally posted by mustang04
this is complete and total BS:mad:

so they could pretty much have told their bf "yeah, im on the pill, so dont worry about wearing a condom..." and next thing ya know, the guy has to pay child support cuz one of these crazy girls.....i really dont think the guy should have to honestly in my opinion

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